Beginner’s Guide To Cock Rings
Are you ready to make yourself the happiest man in the world?! Well, you know you’ve found ‘the one’ when you are completely comfortable, want to show you have the ‘full package’, and you’re able to go harder and longer than ever before! By ‘the one’ we are, of course, referring to your brand new cock ring.
So, whether it’s prolonged pleasure, superior stimulation, greater girth or sadistic satisfaction that really floats your boat, a cock ring will be a welcome addition to any sex play. It’s about time you showed your penis some love, and as always Carexxx is on hand to help you do just that!
Here comes the science…
When you become a wee bit excited, blood flow to your manhood increases dramatically. This ensures that it is big and strong enough to perform the most gratifying of tasks. The purpose of a cock ring is to trap this blood inside the penis and create what is often referred to as a ‘super erection’.
The body is very good at pumping blood in, but not so good at actively pumping out. That means wearing a cock ring will restrict the blood flow out, but shouldn’t necessarily affect the blood being pumped in. It is therefore possible for the cock to become more engorged and bigger than ever before. Additionally, when blood flow to the penis starts to decline, you will remain rock solid. Wearing a cock ring will therefore delay ejaculation. The increased pressure will also heighten sensitivity and orgasm.
You really can’t argue with science!
Mood spoiler alert! We don’t want to kill the mood, but let’s talk safety before moving on. It’s crucial that you pay attention to this section to avoid any unnecessary mishaps with the new love of your life. Remember; when striving for ultimate penis perfection, it is important to go slowly. If at any time you feel in pain please stop immediately. In the extremely unlikely event that priapism occurs (penis does not return to flaccid state), or you cannot remove the cock ring, you should try plunging your valuables into cold water, or treating with an ice pack. Failing that, it may be time to take a trip to the emergency room, but don’t be embarrassed, it’s nothing they haven’t seen before! There are even specially designed tools just for this type of incident.
If you suffer from any serious erectile problems, including erectile dysfunction, a cock ring should not be used in an attempt to ‘cure’ the problem. You may find that a ring will help you to maintain an erection; however, in cases where there could be an underlying issue it is essential to seek urgent medical advice.
It is vitally important to everyone here at Carexxx that you always practice safe sex play. So please follow these tips and help us to sleep easy!
Do
- Trim the hair around the penis and testicles to avoid snagging
- Use plenty of lubricant on the ring, shaft and testicles
- Avoid cock rings with hard plastic stimulators as they can cause bruising
- Remove immediately if you experience any pain, swelling or loss of sensation
- Check there’s not rubbing if wearing a condom. We don’t want any nasty surprises, do we?!
Don’t
- Leave your cock ring on for more than 20-30 minutes
- Use a cock ring to treat serious erectile problems
- Wear a cock ring if you are taking any blood thinning medication
- Use a cock ring if you have a diabetes or any nerve/blood disorders
- Sleep in your cock ring
- Use a makeshift cock ring. This is not an appropriate time for, “here’s one I made earlier”!
How to wear a cock ring
Don’t balls it up! Here’s how you wear a cock ring…
Many cock rings are simply worn around the base of the penis, however; some others (known as cock and ball rings) are designed to be worn around the testicles as well. Don your ring while you play alone, during sex, or just during the day to jut out your Johnson; the choice is yours!
How to put on a cock ring
Trust us; it’s not rocket science! In fact, cock rings are incredibly simple to put on. Because they are worn in either one of two ways, around the base of the penis or the testicles, we have summarised them both for you;
Wearing A Cock Ring – Penis Only
Look after number 1! Cock rings are made using either a stretchy material, or a more rigid one, such as metal. The easiest to put on are those that are more flexible; they can even be put on when erect. As always, make sure you have applied plenty of lube for added comfort and ease. Then simply stretch out your ring so that it fits over the head of your penis with ease. If you can, keep it stretched and take it all the way down to the base. At this point, release the ring GENTLY (and we mean gently). Alternatively, once the ring is over the head you may slide the ring down to the base. Rigid rings should only be placed on the penis when it is flaccid. It should therefore side down to the base with ease (if your measurements are correct). Once you start to get excited, you’ll find that the ring is the perfect fit!
Wearing A Cock Ring – Cock & Balls
Don’t drop the ball by ignoring our advice; this is the best and easiest way to put on a cock and ball ring. Right, first things first; make sure you’re soft before you start… think unsexy thoughts, think unsexy thoughts! Now, simply tuck the testicles into the ring, one at a time, so that it rests above them. Fold the head of your penis down through the ring and push up to the base. Always make sure you use plenty of lube beforehand to ensure this process is as comfortable as possible. Then, have a ball!
Part of the issue is tied to the incredible selection of cock rings out there. They can be as simple as you like or they can play a supporting role in a more elaborate sexual performance. So let’s start with the basics and work our way up.
The Standard Ring
Cock rings work for a very basic reason: an erection occurs when blood flows into the penis faster than it flows out. Under normal circumstances, arousal causes the arteries delivering blood to the penis to expand and the veins removing blood from the penis to contract. When the arteries and veins return to normal size, you loose your erection. The cock ring works because arteries are much better at delivering blood than veins are at removing it, so by restricting the flow of both, you end up with more blood in your penis than the veins can remove. And voila! Erection!
For obvious reasons, cock rings come in a variety of sizes, so you need to experiment a bit to understand which size works best for you (packs with a variety of sizes are a great way to find what works). Cock rings also come in a variety of materials, although you can place them in two basic categories: elastic and rigid cock rings. Elastic or flexible rings are made of latex, rubber or silicone. Hard rings are often made of steel or some other rigid material—but the basic idea is that the ring does not stretch and expand with your cock, which means it can be dangerous if you don’t know what you’re doing. Because the basic risk of restricting blood flow to the penis is that you can damage your tissue if you remain engorged/erect for too long. While the general guideline is to limit use to 20-30 minutes, you should remove it sooner if you experience any discomfort. The risk with hard rings is that they can be very difficult to remove if you expand beyond the size of the ring and, thereby, increase the risk of tissue damage. Consult a knowledgeable sales rep at a reputable store if you’re considering using solid rings.
Cock rings like lube. The rubber tends to stick and catch without it and you’ll need to slide very delicate parts skillfully through tiny openings to get the full benefit, so make sure your ride has glide to slide. The most straightforward use of a cock ring is to simply slide it down your slightly lubed shaft and let it rest in front of your balls. That is, don’t try to slip your balls through the ring to rest behind your testicles. The ring should be just snug enough to slightly constrict your flaccid penis but it should have enough elasticity to accommodate growth. Again, try a few different sizes: you can purchase sets with a variety of sizes to see what works best.
I like to stretch the ring prior to positioning just to loosen it up and test its flexibility.
Slipping Your Balls Through the Cock Ring
Another common use is to slip your balls through the ring, placing the ring behind your testicles. This creates a nice visual by pushing your balls forward and stretching them out a bit. It will also result in a slightly engorged scrotum for many men. Again, lube is key here. I like to put lube on the ring, my shaft and my balls. To slip your balls through the ring, push one testicle at a time through the ring. Depending on the ring, I will either bend my penis down, head first into the ring, and slide it through, or simply pull the ring up over my penis.
Double Cock Rings
You can also use a double cock ring to slide one ring behind your balls while the other remains firmly around your shaft. For added pleasure, you can use a double vibrating ring to stimulate you and your partner. To use a double ring, apply lube to the ring, shaft and scrotum, slide the ring down your shaft and then stretch the larger ring out and slide your balls through. Secure the larger ring behind your balls and the smaller ring remains around your penis.
Self-Pleasure Rings
Many rings are part of pleasure package and one of the most common accompaniments is a prostate and perineum stimulator.
Slip the ring on as described above and then, with ample lube, pop the prostate stimulator into position. The added vibration on your perineum (the highly sensitive area between your scrotum and anus) can feel great and the tug on your cock as you thrust and stretch the band holding the prostate stimulator in place means you and your partner share the benefits of this device equally.
Cock Rings in a Supporting Role
One of my favorite types of toys is the cock ring attached to a double-penetration toy.
Harnesses can be expensive, intimidating and often complicated to put on in the heat of the moment. If you like the idea of delivering double pleasure but hesitate to buy a harness, these double-penetrating cock rings are the solution.
Add a buzz and you’re going to have a memorable and unique sexual experience.
Other examples of cock rings working in tandem with other toys to deliver unique sensations are cock rings with nipple clamps, cock rings that buzz your balls, cock rings that add texture to your penis, cock rings with chastity belts, cock rings with weights on them
and cock rings that spread your balls. You get the idea: there are many, many variations on the standard ring.
Pennis Pump, Cock Rings and Extensions
Although Cock Rings are often sold with Penis Pumps and Penis Extensions, I’ve never seen these three sold together—things get really interesting when you use all three in unison. The pump is not only a great way to get an erection (particularly when you include your partner in the process and let them witness the magical transformation of your penis into a massive, steel rod!), use of a pump often slightly increases the length and girth of your cock as well. And once the pump does it’s magic, the ring does a great job of maintaining your newfound erection and size. And this is when a penis extension can take things to the next level. What most men don’t appreciate, however, is how penis extensions not only dramatically increase length and girth, they deliver new sensations and provide your partner with a stunning visual. combining pumps, cock rings and extensions will make foreplay surprisingly fun, different and enable creative and powerful sexual adventures.
You may be feeling ‘dirty’ after your play, but it is imperative that you clean your ring after every use. If toys are not cleaned properly they can harbour bacteria and transmit infections. Check out our Beginner’s Guide to Sex Toy Materials for a breakdown of the different materials available, safety information and cleaning tips.
This is for all of you naughty guys that think you know best 😉
For those that follow our advice and choose a flexible or adjustable ring, this information is not relevant. Flexible rings are very much a ‘one size fits all’ and adjustable rings are just that…. adjustable! However, if you like to dabble in the ‘hard stuff’, getting your ring size correct is absolutely essential. Follow this simple step-by-step list and you’ll be well on your way to penis perfection in no time;
SIZE MATTERS
Arm yourself with a tape measure
DON’T COCK UP
Make sure you’re hard before you start to take any measurements
MEASURE YOUR MANHOOD
Wrap the tape measure around the base of your penis to establish the circumference (for a cock & ball ring, measure around the penis and the testicles)
DEVIANT DIVISION
Divide this number by 3.142 (Pi) to obtain your required cock ring diameter
DON’T BE THE ODD ONE OUT
If the result is an odd number always opt for the larger size
Selecting the correct ring size is vital. If it is too tight it may stop blood flow completely, causing pain and leading to other complications. We’re sure you want to take care of your prized position, so measure carefully. If your ring is too loose it won’t do any damage, however it won’t do the job it is designed for either.
We know some of you like to exaggerate the truth when it comes to penis size 😉 However, this is definitely a time when honesty is the best policy!
Further Reading
For more information about why we’re so cocky when it comes to this sort of play, check out the 5 Reasons You Should Try Cock Rings today!